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“Bow down bitches,” repeats Beyonce in the opening lines to her new song.

These egotistical, derogatory and offensive lyrics coming from the woman who only two years ago told us girls Run the World.

I thought you were our feminist pop heroine, Bey?

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Sarah Dean, Who is Beyonce Calling a Bitch? (via stand-tall-ladies)

“Who is Beyonce Calling a Bitch?” ok i’ll start

  • you
  • the lady who wrote this article

(via blackfemdomdotcom)

White feminists are THE most willfully obtuse motherfuckers on the Internet. And sure this is huffpo whose journalism is akin to tmz at this point but like REALLY?

They were mad when Beyonce said girls run the world which was mostly a jam about taking power away from men by becoming financially independent which for a lot of women, particularly women of color, is a huge deal. White women can keep on babbling about glass ceilings and “equality” if they want, I don’t want to share a damn thing with white men.

Then they were mad at her for dancing in a leotard at the Super Bowl never mind Beyonce’s choreography is essentially calisthenics in stilettos - SHE NEEDS ROOM TO MOVE. Also whatever happened to body autonomy? Is that also a thing Black women aren’t allowed to participate in?

Then they were enraged that she would name her tour Mrs. Carter, selling her independence down the river! Not for a second pausing to think that 1. it’s a radical act of vulnerability (that black women are rarely afforded) to love another person that much and be unafraid to show it and 2. It’s one of the greatest (public) examples of (traditional, I know) modern day Black love other than say the Obamas.

So now Beyonce claps back with a teaser, not even an official single, telling all of them to hush and reaffirming her position as the one who is in control of her life (took some time to live my life, don’t think I’m just his little wife) and actually calls all of the catty bitches “bitches” which I think is GREAT. Being nice to assholes gets you nowhere so why even try? State your position and move on.

But I also think it’s interesting that white women automatically assumed this was for them - that everything woc do is for them. It reminds me of something Diana said, “I keep forgetting how much of the world’s experiences belong to white ladies for their own purposes.” If you stop assuming Bey is talking to you or making music for you (clearly she’s been on her black girl shit since Destiny’s Child) you wouldn’t be so upset when you don’t understand her message. Everything isn’t for you.

TL;DR STAY MAD HAIRFLIP

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thestoutorialist:

karnythia:

thegoddamazon:

bookishboi:

yagazieemezi:

zebablah:

ghdos:

Whoa. Lot of interesting transformations there.

woooooooooooooooooooow

It’s really give and take. Without make-up, quite a few are naturally good-looking.

Nah bruh 

last time I clicked one of these links I found my cousin on here

All I gotta say is:

CONTOURING WILL CHANGE YOUR WHOLE LIFE SON.

Whew. Contouring is a mothafucka, man. Sheeeeeeeeeiiiit.

The one time I let someone contour my face *I* didn’t recognize me.

After watching RuPaul’s Drag Race I give much respect to contouring. Shit. You can change everything.

Maybe it’s because I don’t understand contouring, which I’ll freely admit, but I feel like the biggest difference-maker here is under-eye concealer? Someone explain to me where I’m going wrong. Now that I’m looking for it more I can see the difference contouring makes but I still think the flawless under-eye look is what makes the most noticeable difference.

Personal reaction time: I have to admit that I spend a lot of time trying to find a balance between my desire to say “fuck flattering” and my desire to dress to appeal to the male gaze because I know that ultimately that’s the only way that I know to attract attention. Anyway, these pictures make me want to never leave the house without makeup again. I’m not saying that’s a positive reaction and it certainly isn’t going to happen! But that’s my honest response. 

(Source: caitedge)

reclaimingthelatinatag:

loteriart:

Happy International Womyn’s Day

Feliz Dia Internacional de la Mujer!

La M.U.J.E.R. by Mujeres Unidas por Justicia Educacion y Revolucion, La Revolucionaria by kararikue, La Valiente by Linda Monsivais (elpunoylamano), La Dreamer Art by Nico of Los Poets del Norte, La Madre by Nuvia Crisol Guerra, Las Mujeres by The Luddite Press 

 

if only we could post more art with mujeres. but check out our tag

<3

(via corazonesfuertes)

Beauty AND Business for Latina Transwoman in New Orleans

glitterlion:

Beauty AND Business for Latina Transwoman in New Orleans

Several years ago, Alana, a Latina transgender woman in New Orleans and a BreakOUT! volunteer, chose transitioning over employment, believing she would forever be unemployable as a transgender woman.  BreakOUT! is helping get Alana back on her feet and needs *your* help to tell employers that transgender women can be about both beauty *and* business!

Who is Alana*?

Alana is a Latina transgender woman in New Orleans and a BreakOUT! volunteer. Alana came to the United States in February 1978 when she was three years old and has been a legal Permanent Resident of this country all of her life. She worked and lived as a successful man until a few years ago when she gave everything up in order to be her true self.

Alana says, “Ever since my transition, I have lost the courage to utilize my skills that I have honed for over a decade because of discrimination and fear.  But speaking to [BreakOUT!] gave me a renewed outlook on my life and career goals.”

Why does she need our support?

Unfortunately, during a difficult time in her life, Alana lost her federal identification card (also known as a Permanent Resident Card) and it has since expired.  Although she’s ready to look for a full-time job, Alana is unemployable and can’t even get a social security card because she needs to have physical proof of residency to obtain one, without which she can’t find a job anywhere. 

Alana says, “I have been barely scraping by on very little income and just cannot seem to come up with anything real to put toward the fees.”  And while she is still here legally, she says, “I have to be extra careful not to get deported or be deprived on my rights.”

Where will my money go? 

The Congress of Day Laborers and the Worker’s Center for Racial Justice helped us identify our fundraising goals.  We’ll need:

  • $365 to cover the filing fee for an I-90
  • $85 to cover the biometrics services
  • $10 to cover the cost of a passport photo = $460 

Help us get Alana back on her feet and show employers that transgender women can be about both beauty and business!

Alana adds:

“I come to you humbly and respectfully for assistance to move on in several areas of my life.  Thank you very much for your consideration in this matter!”

Photo courtesy of Alana. 

*Name changed to respect privacy.

I don’t have the financial ability to support all of the worthy online campaigns or requests for support that I’d like. But in honor of International Woman’s Day I felt that the very least I should sacrifice the cost of a Starbucks treat to try and help this young woman in need, and I would give more if I could. If anybody can spare some money to support this or even just signal boost the indiegogo campaign I’d appreciate it <3

(don’t boost my pathetic little $3 donation receipt though that’s just embarrassing but even if you can’t spare that much please still consider donating)

valleygirlonceremoved:

coketalk:

Interesting, but nope. We don’t hate Anne Hathaway because of the economy. Actually, we don’t hate Anne Hathaway at all. We just don’t give a shit about her particular fairy tale.

It’s not Anne’s fault. She just doesn’t project authenticity. I know that sounds ridiculous, given that authenticity is as manufactured as anything else we absorb from pop culture. Still, authenticity is what it takes for us to scrape off our protective layer of cynicism and enjoy a genuine emotional response to whatever they’re trying to sell us.

In Anne’s case, we’re just not buying it. Sure, she’s talented and lovely and probably holds the world record for never slouching a day in her life, but her humility is false, and even by Hollywood standards her stardom is hyper-calculated. It’s hard to like someone who takes her celebrity that seriously.

Anne has one of the most beautiful smiles in the history of teeth, but you know what? We don’t trust it. We don’t believe that the expression on her face matches the content of her soul, and that slight emotional hypocrisy is enough for us to turn on her.

That’s the fundamental difference between Jennifer Lawrence and Anne Hathaway. We’d all rather imagine ourselves as J-Law’s BFF because when she smiles (or trips or cries or farts) we believe her. She is authentic in a way that Anne just isn’t.

I’m not bothering to read the original article beyond the headline, but coketalk nails it. And can I just add that I’m really sick of seeing all these dudes all over the internet telling me my distaste for Anne Hathaway is internalized misogyny. Like I don’t think Seth committed too many serious crimes*, and there’s certainly a conversation to be had about girl hate centered on certain celebrities, but in light of how sexist this year’s Oscar’s undeniably were how about all your bros shut the fuck up for once and let the ladies lead the conversation? 

*I think that Seth MacFarlane is a better satirist than he sometimes gets credit for and that’s why I’m not critiquing him too much for his performance. Obviously the jokes about Quvenzhané Wallis were unacceptable, largely because they were racialized in a way most of the other jokes were not, regardless of intent. But that is a larger conversation that is already being had by better minds than myself. 

In case anybody still doubts it, while scrolling the Christoph Waltz tag I came across a visual representation of this argument against Anne Hathaway’s authenticity:

Just looking at the difference between her and JLaw’s body language makes my skin crawl at her smarmy artifice. And yet, there’s got to be some kind of internalized misogyny that causes me to perceive her that way, hasn’t there? I’m not trying to police anyone’s version of femininity, I don’t want to be all Julie Klausner about things…I guess I’ve got to accept that there really are some nasty unconscious bias going on in reacting negatively to Anne Hath. I have to admit I was wrong, but that still DOESN’T mean I need to hear mansplainations from dudes who think their sexual attraction to Hathaway means they need to defend her against those bitchy women who are always fighting among themselves. 

coketalk:

Interesting, but nope. We don’t hate Anne Hathaway because of the economy. Actually, we don’t hate Anne Hathaway at all. We just don’t give a shit about her particular fairy tale.

It’s not Anne’s fault. She just doesn’t project authenticity. I know that sounds ridiculous, given that authenticity is as manufactured as anything else we absorb from pop culture. Still, authenticity is what it takes for us to scrape off our protective layer of cynicism and enjoy a genuine emotional response to whatever they’re trying to sell us.

In Anne’s case, we’re just not buying it. Sure, she’s talented and lovely and probably holds the world record for never slouching a day in her life, but her humility is false, and even by Hollywood standards her stardom is hyper-calculated. It’s hard to like someone who takes her celebrity that seriously.

Anne has one of the most beautiful smiles in the history of teeth, but you know what? We don’t trust it. We don’t believe that the expression on her face matches the content of her soul, and that slight emotional hypocrisy is enough for us to turn on her.

That’s the fundamental difference between Jennifer Lawrence and Anne Hathaway. We’d all rather imagine ourselves as J-Law’s BFF because when she smiles (or trips or cries or farts) we believe her. She is authentic in a way that Anne just isn’t.

I’m not bothering to read the original article beyond the headline, but coketalk nails it. And can I just add that I’m really sick of seeing all these dudes all over the internet telling me my distaste for Anne Hathaway is internalized misogyny. Like I don’t think Seth committed too many serious crimes*, and there’s certainly a conversation to be had about girl hate centered on certain celebrities, but in light of how sexist this year’s Oscar’s undeniably were how about all your bros shut the fuck up for once and let the ladies lead the conversation? 

*I think that Seth MacFarlane is a better satirist than he sometimes gets credit for and that’s why I’m not critiquing him too much for his performance. Obviously the jokes about Quvenzhané Wallis were unacceptable, largely because they were racialized in a way most of the other jokes were not, regardless of intent. But that is a larger conversation that is already being had by better minds than myself. 

rosarioisabeldawson:

rosario dawson + kerry washington

I LOVE Kerry! #MyfellowVDayBoardMember

*strains of The Cure’s Why Can’t I Be You*

#eitherofthem #badassbeautifulwomenofcolor

(Source: comeonkid)

bon-bon:

Forever super jealous of people who have the privilege to be able to write openly and honestly about their experiences without worrying about how connecting your name to your stories will potentially negatively affect your employments situations in the future. 

No shit. I got blocked by @JennPozner as a troll on twitter once for calling her out on some seemingly fucked up language and she came at me with some shit about needing to use one’s real name to be taken seriously. Like, sorry that we can’t all be post-grad ~expert feminists~ and excuse me if I’m not into outing my racial or sexual identity to every single person on the planet. This was literally the same week someone had been fired from the Library of Congress for a FB like so it’s not as if it’s a hypothetical. 

commanderbishoujo:

“i followed you because I’m a fellow geek and blah blah”

lol no, try again Becky

you followed me looking for your two scoops of cookies n cred ice cream like every other trifling white girl feminist that thinks they’re about some shit just bc they follow a couple of black ppl that talk about our lives/identities inbetween talking about tv shows or comic books or whatever

there are literally a million of you on this site and aint none of you worth shit

do you know how I know this

bc y’all sit quietly never interacting with your ~fellow geeks~ as fans/ppl and staying willfully ignorant about the P in POC standing for “people”

nodding your heads and dutifully clicking likes and reblogging the odd Audre Lorde quote or race discussion (and remaining silent when your stupid white friends derail our thoughts and words and we get anon hate)

soaking in our pain like it’s fucking pornography

and then inevitably you show up on a thread talking all over black women especially thinking you are showing some kind of warped solidarity when in fact you are showing your ass and being a racist shitstain navel gazing and making everything about you and your shitty white feelings

this aint Keebler, Becky

bye

This is some shit I need to be mindful of.

I’d also like to have a conversation sometime about how I feel about my place within these situations as a Latina but I’m not trying to derail from the point of the OP. 

Ooh the rebel girl on Upstairs, Downstairs needs a “Menstrual Irregularity Cure”

She also told her lovah “All a bad girl needs is one good mink and the love of a decent man” before she dumped him AND the coat. She’s winning me over. Also the stern aunt character was revealed to be a lesbian with a star crossed love that she wouldn’t settle for a hidden affair with. So lots of tough chicks being badass; I’m starting to enjoy this show for more than just a Downton substitute. 

(tw reproductive violence) Now the rebel is recovering from a professional but illegal abortion in a hotel room and it really reminds me of the film 4 Months, 3 Weeks and 2 Days which is a tough watch but excellent.